I have traveled to many states for work, I have worked 13 hour graveyard shifts as a quality engineer tech at a semiconductor facility, I have worked the worst, riskiest, and most unwanted jobs, but now I’m 27 years old work in a plush office environment as a software developer contracting for $57 an hour…

However I believe I do this all for the sake of sex and pursuing a relationship with a decent and beautiful woman, this is just the way of things, this is our gender role as men, to knuckle under, work hard and do what we gotta do to succeed and impress a woman. It’s depressing but I have come to accept this role as a man.

Next to noone taking this line blames women or wants them wiped out like the likes of Mary Daly or Valerie Solanas were in their books.

However they recognise patriachy for what it is and have had enough.

Patriarchy is men being reduced to cannon fodder while women stay safe in their homes.

Patriarchy is men dying of disease, injury and exhaustion on large scale infrastructure projects to give women and children better lives.

Patriarchy is chivalry and gallantry men whoring themselves out to women while giving women the power of choice for who they will be with rather than it being about equal choice. It is also expecting men to on one hand be the ultimate alpha, but to capitulate completely to a woman.

Patriarchy is the notion that all men who are victims of domestic violence at the hands of women are either urban myths, not “real men” or perpetual predators finally getting what was coming to them (ie “the woman MUST have been defending herself”).

Patriarchy is the notion that “women and children” must be saved at all costs while men are a dime a dozen and can easily be replaced.

Patriarchy is the notion that men should be reduced to virtual cash registers and ATMs at the cost of the bond and relationship with their children.

It is because of Patriarchy that men are choosing the path of the MGTOW and the marriage strike, as the system has made relationships highly perilous for men. DV laws blame the man and protect the woman, rather than prosecuting the perpetrator and protecting the victim; the family court system views men as expendable and exploitable compared to the infinitely protectable woman.

The reality is that men have had enough of not only fellow men and our fathers encouraging this (but largely because they too are trapped by this and do not know any better), but our mothers and the women of society wanting us to be “real men” and then as our psychological jailers, vilifying us as some kind of perpetual overlord for it. I realise that women are also trapped by the same system and that their prison is merely the flip side of the same coin- however such a statement is necessary to break through the notion that women are perpetually harmless, innocent and helpless. Some women are truly wonderful, while others are pretty much Satan incarnate and while the former is recognised by society, the later is virtually an anathema to it.

I like many other men are waking up and have had enough- we reject the traditionalist alpha and beta roles as equally as we reject the feminist omega role. We are proud Zeta men- our manhood being defined by our physical gender, but that genderhood making of a tiny fraction of our personhood. All the feminists and the traditionalists out there should start to realise that we will not be silenced and we will not go away. With each injustice our numbers grow larger and our voices less silent. We refuse to be viewed by society as expendable penises on legs and demand our personhoods be treated with the same dignity that feminism demands for those of women.

You cannot vilify us into silence, you cannot emasculate us into vanishing. We are here to stay and we will do what feminists have failed to do and had no right to even attempt to do- redefine masculinity. We are here to stay. To all the traditionalists and feminists out there; I have 4 words for you: get used to it!

1# all the angels are male, there are no female angels and there never will be.

2# the houri (female jinn) have not free well, their only job is to obey their husband-master even if he says wants to have sex with her.

3# because men are “expendable” in this world so their not in next.

so you see, YHWH(God) made it this way to be fair.

That’s quite an ordeal you’re going through. But good on you for reclaiming your spine and your balls. You may lose a lot in the process, but you’ll get yourself back, and over time your children will respect you for it.

Know that you are part of a large silent movement of men who are reclaiming their integrity and having healthy boundaries with women.