Archive for January, 2011

British Writer on Misandry

Thursday, January 27th, 2011

Check out this important (and at times tongue-in-cheek) article by Giles Coren on sexism against men:

Only last week, for example, Jo Brand, the newly crowned Best Female TV Comic at the British Comedy Awards, was on Have I Got News For You and replied to the question ‘What’s your favourite kind of man, Jo?’ by saying: ‘A dead one.’ Oh, how the audience fell about. And the other contestants, all male, chortled away too.

I’m not saying it wasn’t funny. I’m just saying we live in a world where the thorough-going awfulness, uselessness and superfluity of the male sex is such a given, that a frontline television comic can get big laughs by saying she’d prefer it if we were all dead.

I suppose, in a way, British men are like white people were in Nineties South Africa or young Germans after the Second World War.

We are expected to go through a period of atonement for the sins of our fathers. To be treated worse than we merit because of crimes previously committed in our name: in this case the crime of feeding, protecting, loving and nurturing women in accordance with our biological imperative.

Swedish Men’s Network Launches Website

Monday, January 24th, 2011

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Last week the Swedish Men’s Network launched a stand alone website. We’ve existed for about a year – as a Facebook group – and now we finally have a proper web presence. Sweden, as you may now, is more affected by radical feminism than almost any other country in the world, so we badly need this initiative.

As the founder of the Men’s Network, I’d like to outline our core offerings in v 1.0 of the site. Perhaps this can serve as an inspiration for similar sites in other countries, and in turn we can be inspired by your feedback on what we could add.

Some of the main features implemented so far are:

  • An overview of the most common men’s issues, where every claim is backed up by academic research, official statistics or references to Swedish legislation.
  • A first person account of what it’s like to be a man. In this essay I honor the achievements of the original women’s movement (i.e. equal legal rights) while highlighing that women tend to know almost nothing of men’s struggles. Most men have been taught about women’s issues, and therefore have empathy for women, whereas most women haven’t been taught about men’s issues and therefore lack this kind of empathy.
  • A mixture of longer PDF documents and shorter articles that are a quick read.
  • A calendar of events on men’s issues. The calendar itself is meant to help generate events, since almost all events on gender are feminist events. There are some informal meetings in Stockholm, Gothenburg and Malmö for men’s rights activists, and father’s rights groups organize events every now and then around the country.
  • The ability to become a member. Each member supports the cause, and membership is also the only way to get our newsletter.
  • Guest writers will be invited to ensure that we cover a wide variety of men’s issues.

Our plans for the future are to implement:

  • A blog.
  • A wiki-like section where members can post links to research reports, books, articles, movies, etc that are relevant to men’s issues.

To implement this v 2.0 of the site we will migrate to the Wordpress platform, so we are looking for a programmer with solid Wordpress skills who loves men’s issues and will work for free.

At the moment we have no plans to add a forum, since forums can lead to heated debates, personal attacks and an inability to differentiate between women and feminists (I love the former category). Since our initiative is vulnerable enough as is in the political climate of Sweden, we need to control the image we project, and forums will have to wait until we’ve made some progress in changing the paradigm on gender issues.

And change the paradigm we will. This beautiful quote, used in one of our articles, illustrates how unstoppable we really are:

Rocco: Men build things, then we die. It’s in our fucking DNA! THAT’S WHAT WE DO!
Murphy MacManus: And when it all falls down?
Rocco: We build it right back up again.
Connor MacManus: But this time bigger. BETTER!
Rocco: Look! Look what we can do. Look how fuckin’ beautiful we are. You think the men that built all this had it easy?
[The Boondock Saints II]

We are men. And nothing can stop the men’s movement as long as we keep on building web sites, brochures, lobby groups, political parties or whatever it takes to restore sanity. It’s in our DNA, so let’s get to work.

Your input, feedback, donation or encouragement is greatly appreciated.

Re-engaging Boys in Learning

Sunday, January 16th, 2011

Have a look at this interesting TED talk:

Interview on MSNBC

Tuesday, January 11th, 2011

About a week ago I was interviewed by MSNBC and here is the result. At the moment it’s a front page story on World News.

For weeks, the debate has dominated the airwaves and newspapers in Sweden.

But while many view the ability to discuss the ambiguous intimate issues as a positive thing, the gray area often referred to and the country’s relatively broad definition of rape alarms others.

Pelle Billing, a M.D. who lectures and writes on gender and men’s issues, worries that Sweden’s rape and domestic violence laws make it difficult for men to get a fair trial.

He cites a quote by the lawyer for Assange’s accusers, who went to the police for advice before deciding to file charges.

“Women who are assaulted don’t always define it as that,” said lawyer Claes Borgstrom, who is the Swedish Social Democratic Party’s spokesman on gender equality. “It’s a big problem in our society and it can be difficult to assess what has happened if you are not a lawyer.”

“So how is man supposed to know what the boundaries are if the women don’t know?” Billing asks. According to him, feminism in Sweden has stopped being about equal rights and has begun to infringe on men’s rights.

So Billing spends little time worrying whether the case against Assange is the result of U.S. pressure on Sweden and instead focuses on whether Swedish courts uphold the presumption of innocence for men accused of rape and domestic violence.

Billing was excoriated in public for discussing his beliefs and the Assange case on a leading current affairs program.

Venus: The Dark Side

Saturday, January 8th, 2011

Everyone knows that dangerous men exist. But how about dangerous women?

More information here.